To be intersex is to exist outside long-established social constructs that demand a binary definition of sexual identity: that a person is born either male and female. But up to 1.7% of the population is born with intersex traits—traits that many doctors and families look to “correct.” WHO I AM NOT follows a beauty queen and a male-presenting activist as they come to terms with the choices that others made for them and carve out their own authentic identities in a world that too often seems unable or unwilling to recognize them.